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Dua's for Good Matrimonial Relationship
Dua'a 189
Recite Surah Yasin 7 times and every time
blow breath through the palm of the right hand on 7 almonds separately and give
them to your spouse for eating all of them.
Dua'a 190
BISMILLAHIR
RAHMAN NIR RAHIM 786 times on a glass of clean (pure) water and give it to your
spouse for drinking.
Dua'a 191
Recite Surah An-Nisa 7 times a day.
Dua'a 192
Surah al Quraysh (chapter 106) on
roses and both of them should smell them.
Dua'a 193
Recite (AL WADOODU) 1000
times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some
sweet eatables and both should eat it.
Dua'a 194
Recite Surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 41 times and every time blow
breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and give it to
your spouse to eat.
Dua'a 197
Recite the following du-a'a (verse 31 of
Aali Imran) 3 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right
hand on a glass of pure water and give it to your spouse to drink.
Say (O Muhammad): “If you love Allah, then follow me: Allah will love you and forgive you your sins, verily. Allah is forgiving merciful." QUL IN KUNTUM TUH'IBBOONALLAAHA FATTABI-O'ONEE YUH'BIBKUMULLAAHU WA YAGHFIR LAKUM D'UNOOBAKUM WALLAAHU GHAFOORURU RAH'EEM. |
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Dua'a 200
Recite verse 32 of Sad on some sweet
eatables and give it to both of them to eat during a period of 7 days.
He said: “Verily I have loved the love of (earthly) good above the rememberance of my Lord until (the sun) was hidden in the veil (of night).” (FAQAALA) INNEEE AH'BABTU H'UBBAL KHAYRI A'N D'IKRI RABBEE H'ATTAA TAWAARAT BIL H'IJAAB |
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Recite verse 83 of Yasin on some sweet
eatables and give it to both of them to eat.
Inshallah very soon they will come very close to each other.
Therefore glory be o Him in whose hand in the kingdom of all things. Unto Him you will all return. There is no might nor strength with (any one) save Allah, the high, the great. FASUBH'AANALLAD'EE BIYADIHEE MALAKOOTU KULLI SSHAY-IW WA ILAYHI TURJA-O'ON |
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Dua'a 208
Recite verse 40 of Ahzab on some fragrant
flowers or eatables and give it to your spouse to smell or eat.
Muhammad is not the father of any man among you, but a messenger of Allah, and the seal of the prophets. Allah is the knower of all things. MAA KAANA MUH'AMMADUN ABAAA AH'ADIM MIR RIJAALIKUM WA LAAKIR RASOOLALLAAHI WA KHATAMAN NABIYEEN WA KAANALLAAHU BIKULLI SHAY-IN A'LEEMAA |
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As directed in Biharul Anwar, take an egg
(hen) clean it and write verse 128 of al Bara-at on it with the name of your
spouse. Enclose the egg in a pot
with a cover and bury it under the earth where fire burns everyday.
Inshallah the spouse will come very close to you.
If there has been a separate, an immediate reconciliation will take
place.
Indeed a messenger from among you has come to you. Any distress that befalls you grieves him, (he is) most kind and merciful to the believers. LAQAD JAAA-AKUM RASOOLUM MIN ANFUSIKUM A'ZEEZUN A'LAYHI MAA A'NITTUM H'AREES'UN A'LAYKUM BILMOOMINEENA RA-OOFUR RAH'EEM |
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It is
written in Biharul Anwar that in order to create love between man and wife write
the names of Ashab al kahf (the people of the cave) and then the name of your
spouse with her or his mother's or father's name and wear it as a ta'wid on the
right arm.
The names
of seven sleepers (followers of Prophet Isa) in Christian books are as under :
Constantine
Dionysius
John
Malchus
Martinian
Maximiam
Serapion
According
to Hafiz Farman Ali Sahib they were six and the seventh was a dog.
Their names are given below :
Kimsilmina
Martunus
Sarnivilus
NinivanusTmlikha
Wariwanus
Dua'a 216
To create
love between man and wife (who is showing signs of indifference)
(i) Write Surah as Zukhruf (chapter 43) on a plate of China Clay and wash it with pure
water and give it to the wife to drink.
Or
(ii) The
aggrieved husband should recite Surah al Jumu-a'h (chapter 62) 5 times a day
Or
(iii) Keep
the written text of the said Surah on the body as a tawid
Or
(iv) The
aggrieved husband should recite Ayat al Kursi (see du-a'a 39 ) equal in number
of the total of his and his wife's name as per the rule of abjad.
Or
(v) He
should wear the written text of Ayat ul Kursi as a tawid on his body.
To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between man and wife
(1)
Recite Surah Jumah (chapter 62) on Friday and invoke the
Almighty Allah to fulfill your desire.
(2)
Recite (AL MAANI-U)
The Preventer as many times as possible.
(3)
Recite the following portion of verse
54 of al Ma-idah on some sweet eatables and let both of them eat it.
He loves them and who love Him, humble towards the believers, mighty against the infidels. UH'IBBUHUM WA YUH'IBBOONAHOOO AD'ILLATIN A'LAL MOOMINEENA A-I'ZZATIN A'LAL KAAFIREEN |
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To remove discord and separation between man and wife and to bring themselves in to harmony again
One of them should recite the following
du'a on some fresh
fragrant flowers with full concentration and send them to the other spouse for
smelling them.
Say 11 times - O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progeny of Muhammad. Then say - Allah is He whose help is to be sought against what you describe. O my helper. O my affectionate Lord, save me from every anguish. Then say 11 times : O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progeny of Muhammad. ALLAAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUHAMMAD. |
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(Al Aziz said:) “Ignore this affair, O Yusuf; and you (O my wife) ask forgiveness for your sin; verily you have been of the guilty.” And the women in the city said: “The wife of al Aziz (nobleman of high rank) seeks to seduce here page from his (pure) self. Verily he has inflamed her with violent love. Verily we see her in manifest error.” YOOSUFU A'RIZ A'N HAAD'AA WASTAGHFIREE LID'AMBIKI INNAKA FUNTI MINAL KHAAT'I-EEN WA QAALA NISWATUN FIL MADEENATIMRA-ATUL A'ZEEZI TURAAWIDU FATAAHAA A'N NAFSIH QAD SHAGHAFAHAA H'UBBAA INNAA LANARAAHAA FEE Z'ALAALIM MUBEEN |
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ALLAAHUMMA AH'ABBANEE ILAA QALBI |
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To make your wife love you and obey you
Recite Surah al Wadr (chapter 97) and while
reciting, keep her hair on the forehead in your hand.
To create and develop love and affection between man and wife
Dua'a 203
O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad H'aa meem ayn seen qaaf Ya Sin. By the Quran, the book of wisdom. Nun. By the pen and by what they write. You alone we worship and from You alone we seek help. O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad. ALLAAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUH'AMMAD H'AA MEEM AYN SEEN QAAF |
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(i) Recite 14 times :
O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad.
(ii)
H'AA MEEM AYN SEEN QAAF
(iii)
Ya Sin, By the Quran, the book of wisdom.
YAA SEEN WAL QURAANIL H'AKEEM
(iv)
Nun. By the pen and by what they write.
Noon Wal Qalami Wa Maa Yast'uroon
(v)
You alone we worship and from You alone we seek help.
Iyyaaka na'-Budu wa iyyaaka nasta-e'en
(vi) Say
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Blessings of Allah be on Muhammad and on his children, all of whom are the best creation among His all creations; for the purpose of (creation) love (in the heart of (name of husband with his mother) for (name the wife with her mother).
S'allallaahu A'laa khayri khalqihee muh'ammadin wa aalihee ajma-e'en lih'ubbi (name of husband with his mother) A'laa H'ubbi (name of wife with her mother)
(vii) Recite 14 times :
O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad.
Recite the following verse 96 of
Maryam on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat.
Inshallah they will come close to each other very soon.
Verily those who believe and do good deeds, ARRAHMAN will appoint for them love. INNALLAD'EENA AAMANOO WA A'MILUS S'AALIH'AATI SAYAJ -A'LU LAHUMUR RAH'MAANU WUDDAA |
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Recite following verses (last
portion of 62 and 63 of Anfal) on some sweet eatables and give it to both of
them to eat. Inshallah there will
be a positive result very soon.
It is He who strengthened you with His help and with the believers. He has put affection between their hearts. Had you spent all that is in the earth you could not have put affection between their hearts, but Allah put affection between them; verily He is mighty, wise.
HUWALLAD'EEE AYYADAKA BINAS'RIHEE WA BIL MOOMINEEN WA ALLAFA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM LAW ANFAQTA MAA FIL ARZ'I JAMEE-AM MAAA ALLAFTA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM WA LAAKINNALLAAHA ALLAFA BAYNAHUM INNAHOO A'ZEEZUN H'AKEEM |
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According
to Biharul Anwar to create and develop love between man and wife, after
marriage, if there is discord and misunderstanding, write verses 9 to 14 of Az
Zukhruf on 4 pages and bury these 4 pages separately in four corners of the
house (One page in every corner)
If you ask them: “Who created the heavens and the earth?” They will certainly say: ‘The all-mighty, the all-knowing created them.’ He who made the earth for you as a cradle, and laid out paths upon it for you so that you may be rightly guided. Who sends down water from the heaven in due measure; then We raise to life with it a land which was dead-so shall We bring you forth (from your graves on the day of resurrection). He who created pairs of every thing and made for you ships and cattle on which you ride, So that (when) you sit firm and square on their backs, and remember the bounty of your Lord, and when so seated, you may say: “Glory be to Him who subjected these to us, because we were not able to do so ourselves. Verily we shall return to our Lord.” WA LA-IN SA-ALTAHUM MAN KHALAQAS SAAMAAWAATI WAL ARZ'A LAYAQOOLUNNA KHALAQAHUNNAL A'ZEEZUL A'LEEM ALLAD'EE JA-A'LA LAKUMUL ARZ'A MAHDAW WA JA-A'LA LAAAKUM FEEHAA SUBULAL LA-A'LLAKUM TAHTADOON WALLAD'EE NAZZALA MINAS SAMAAA-I MAAA-AM BIQADAR FA-ANSHARNAA BIHEE BALDATAM MAYTAA KAD'AALIKA TUKHRAJOON WALLAD'EE KHALQAL AZWAAJA KULLAHAA WAA JA-A'LA LAKUM MINAL FULKI WAL AN-A'AMI MAA TARKABOON LITASTAWOO AAAAA'LAA Z'UHOORIHEE THUMMA TAD'KUROO NI-MATA RABBIKUM ID'AS - TAWAYTUM A'LAYHI WA TAQOOLOO SUBH'AANAL LAD'EE SAKHKHARA LANAA HAAD'AA SUBH'AANAL LAD'EE SAKHKHARA LANAA HAAD'AA WA MAA KUNNAA LAHOO MUQRINEEN WA INAAA ILAA RABBINAA LAMUNQALIBOON |
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It is
written in Biharul Anwar that in order to create love between man and wife write
verse 63 of al Anfal and verse 7 of al Mumtahinah with saffron on a piece of
paper after praying a 2 rakat salat on Sunday wash it with pure water and both
of them should drink it for 7 days.
He has put affection between their hearts. Had you spent all that is in the earth you could not have put affection between their hearts, but Allah put affection between them; verily He is mighty, wise. It may be that Allah will create friendship between you and those of them whom you holed as enemies. Allah is all-powerful. Allah is oft-forgiving, ever-merciful. WA ALLAFA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM LAW ANFAQTA MAA FIL ARZ'I JAMEE-A'M MAAA ALLAFTA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM WAQ LAA KINNALLAAHA ALLAFA BAYNAHUM INNAHOO A'ZEEZUN H'HAKEEM A'SALLAAHU AY YAJ-A'LA BAYNAKUM WA BAYNALLAD'EENA A'ADAYTUM MINHAM MAWADDAH WALLAAHU QADEER WALLAAHU GHAFOOR UR RAHEEM |
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If the
husband is displeased with the wife,
she should recite the following verse 165
of al Baqarah on some sweat eatables and give it to him to eat.
Inshaallah soon there will be positive result.
And yet there are some among men who take for themselves objects of worship besides Allah whom they love as they love Allah; but the believers are stronger in love from Allah. And if those who are unjust could only see when they see the punishment, that to Allah belongs all powers, and verily Allah is severe in punishment. WA MINAN NAASI MAY YATTAKHID'U MIN DOONILLAAHI ANDAADAY YUH'IBBOONAHUM KAH'UBBILLAAH WALLAD'EENA AAMANOOO ASHADDU H'UBBAL LILLAAH WA LAW YARAL LAD'EENA Z'ALAMOOD ID'YARAWNAL A'D'AABA ANNAL QUWWATA LILLAAHI JAMEE-A'W WA ANNALLAAHA SHADEEDUL A'D'AAB |
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Recite
30 times verse 129 of al Bara-at during the Friday night, keeping in mind
the name of the displeased spouse. Inshallah,
there will be harmony between the two spouses again.
But if they turn away, say: “Allah suffices me. There is no god but He. On Him do I rely, and He is the Lord of the great throne.” FA-IN TAWALLAW FAQUL H'ASBIYALLAAHU LAAA ILAAHA ILLAA HUW A'LAYHI TAWAKKALTU WA HUWA RABBUL A'RSHIL A'Z'EEM |
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Then say
name of spouse with mother
O my Allah, You are (my) Lord, be sufficient for me to make her heart yield to me and submit to me in (love and affection). ALLAAHUMMA ANTA YAA RABBI 'ASBEE A'LAA (mention the name of the spouse with mother's name) QA-T'IF QALBAHAA A'LAYYA WA D'ALLIHAA LEE |
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If there
is discord after marriage between man and wife, in order to create love, it is
written in Biharul Anwar, to write verses 1 and 2 of Ad Dahr with saffron and
wash it with rose water and both of them should drink it.
Did not a space of time pass over man when he was not anything worth mentioning? Verily We created man from a drop of mingled fluid (life-germ) in order to test and try him; so We gave him hearing and sight. HAL ATAA A'LAL INSAANI H'EENUM MINAD DAHRI LAM YAKUN SHAY-AN MAD'KOORAA |
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(i) verse 7 of al Mumtahinah
(ii) say 70 times
O Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progeny of Muhammad, as many asthose who beseech You to send blessings on him. ALLAAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUHAMMADIN BI-A'DADI MAN S'ALLI A'LAYHI) |
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(iii) Then
recite the following du-a'a 27 times.
O my Allah, let (mention husband’s name) heart grow soft and gentle just as You melt the iron for Dawud, peace be on him, and make him mild and yielding to me just as You made the winds tractable and submissive to Sulayman son of Dawud, peace be on both of them, and put affection between us just as You put love between Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him and on his children) and Khadijah (blessings of Allah be on her), and between Ali (peace be on him) and Fatimah Zahra, blessings of Allah be on her, O the most beneficent. ALLAAHUMMA LAYYIN QALBA (mention husband's name) KAMAA LAYYANTAL H'ADEEDA LIDAAWOODA A'LAYHIS SALAAMU WA SAKHKHIR LEE KAMAA SAKHKHARTAR REEH'A LISULAYMAANABNI DAAWOODA A'LAYHIM AS SALAAMU WA ALLIF BAYNANAA KAMAA ALLAFTA BAYNA MUHAMMADAN S'ALLALLAAHU A'LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAM WA KHADEEJAH WA A'LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAM WA KHADEEJAH WA A'LIYYIN A'LAYHIS SALAAMU WA FATIMATAZ ZAHRAA-I S'ALAWAATULLAAHI A'LAYHAA YAA ARH'AAMAR RAAHIMEEN |
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To make a
bad tempered and wicked husband docile and gentle recite the following du-a'a on
some sweet eatables and give it to him to eat.
O everliving, O self-subsisting, O beneficent, O merciful (help me) by Your mercy, O the most merciful. YAA H'AYYU YAA QAYYOOM YAA RAH'MAANU YAA RAHEEM BIRAH'MATIKA YAA ARH'AMAR RAAHIMEEN |
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TO CREATE LOVE BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE - PET book extracts
1 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite surah Ya Sin 7 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on 7 almonds separately and give them to your spouse of eating all of them.
2 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite BISMILLAAHIR RAHMAN NIR RAHIM 786 times on a glass of clean (pure) water and give it to your spouse for drinking.
3 To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between husband and wife recite surah al Jumu-ah (chapter 62) on Friday and invoke the almighty Allah to fulfill your desire.
4 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite surah al Quraysh (chapter 106) on roses and both of them should smell the.
5 To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between husband and wife recite as many times as possible. “AL MAANI-U” (the preventer)
6 To create or develop love and understanding between husband and wife recite 1000 times : “AL WADOODU” [ the affectionate ] and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and both should eat it.
7 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 41 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and give it to your spouse to eat.
8 To remove discord and separation between husband and wife and to bring themselves in to harmony again one of them should recite the following dua on some fresh fragrant flowers with full concentration and send them to the other spouse for smelling them. Say 11 times salawat: “ ALLAAHUMMA S’ALLI A’LAA MUH’AMMADIN WA AALI MUH’AMMAD” [ O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progency of Muhammed. ]
Then say :
“WALLAAHUL MUSTA-A’ANU A’LAA MAA TAS’IFOONA YAA RAFEEQU YAA SHAFEEQU NAJJINEE MIN KULLI Z”AYQIN”
[Allah is He whose help is to be sough against what you describe O my helper. O my affectionate Lord, save me from every anguish.]
Then say 11 times salawat :
9 If the husband is displeased with the wife, she should recite the following verse 165 of al Baarah on some sweat eatables and give it to him to eat. Inshallah soon there will be a positive result.
WA MINAN NAASI MAY YATTAKHID’U MIN DOONILLAAHI ANDAADAY MIN DONILLAAHI ANDAADAY YUH’IBBOONAHUM KAH’UBBILLAAH WALLAD’EENA AAMANOOO ASHADDU H’UBBAL LILLAAH WA LAW YARAL LAD’EENA Z’ALAMOOO ID’ YARAWNAL A’D’AABA ANNAL QUWWATA LILLAAHI JAMEE-A’W WA ANNAALLAAHA SHADEEDUL A’D’AAB
And yet there are some among men who take for themselves objects of worship besides Allah whom they love as they love Allah; but the believers are stronger in love for Allah. And if those who are unjust could only see when they see the punishment, that to Allah belongs all powers, and verily Allah is severe in punishment.
10 According to Bihar ul Anwar, if husband is taking interest in another woman, gambling and drinking etcetera, the wife should recite a 2 rak-at salat and in each rak-at after reciting surah al Fatihah, recite :
i) Verse 7 of al Mumtahinah
WA ALLAFA BAYNA QULOOBIHIM LAW ANFAQTA MAA FIL ARZ”I JAMEE-A’M MAAA ALLAFTA BAYNAQULOOBIHIM WA LAA KINNALLAAHA ALLAFA BAYNAHUM INNAHOO A’ZEEZUN H’AKEEM A’SALLAAHU AY YAJ-A’LA BAYNAKUM WA BAYNALLAD’EENA A’ADAYTUM MINHUM MAWADDAH WALLAAHU QADEER WALLAAHU GHAFOORUR RAH’EEM
He has put affection between their hearts. Had you spent all that is in the earth you could not have put affection between their hearts, but Allah put affection between them; verily He is mighty, wise. It may be that Allah will create friendship between you and those whom you hold as enemies. Allah is all-powerful. Allah is oft-forgiving, ever-merciful.
ii) Say 70 times :
ALLAAHUMMA S’ALLI A’LAA MUH’AMMADIN WA AALI MUH’AMMADIN WA AALI MUH’AMMADIN BI-A’DADI MAN S’ALLI A’LAYHI
O Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progency of Muhammad, as many as those who beseech You to send blessings on him.
iii) Then recite the following dua’a 27 times:
ALLAAHUMMA LAYYIN QALBA (mention husband’s name) KAMMA LAYYANTAL H’ADEEDA LIDAAWOODA A’LAYHIS SALAAMU WA SAKHKHIR LEE KAMAA SAKHKHARTAR REEH’A LISULAYMAANABNI DAAWOODA A’LAYHIMAS SALAAMU WA ALLIF BAYNANAA KAMAA ALLAFTA BAYNA MUH’AMMADIN S’ALLALLAAHU A’LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAMA WA KHADEEJAHTA WA A’LIYYIN A’LAYHIS SALAMU WA FAT’IMATAZ ZAHRAA-I S’ALAWAATULLAAHI A’LAYHAA YAA ARH’AMAR RAAH’IMEEN.
O my Allah, let (mention husband’s name) heart grow soft and gentle just as You melt the iron for Dawud, peace be on him, and make him mild and yielding to me just as You made the winds tractable and submissive to Sulayman son of Dawud, peace be on both of them, and put love between Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him and on his children) and Khadijah (blessings of Allah be on her), and between Ali (peace be on him) and Fatimah Zahra, blessings of Allah be on her, O the most beneficent.